My spouse and I have been married for 6 months. I am writing to you as a result of she is making life troublesome for me. She can’t maintain her mouth shut. She tells her mother and brothers the whole lot that happens in our home which I discover offensive. When we purchase one thing costly, she tells them.
When we quarrel, she tells them. I often get WhatsApp messages from the in-laws asking about issues that ought to be stored between us. I just lately acquired circumcised and now her complete family is aware of.
I have requested her a number of occasions to management what she says nevertheless it has not helped. What do I do?
Maybe begin telling all her deep secrets and techniques to everybody and let her see the way it feels perhaps that open her eyes as to the way it makes you’re feeling when she tells yours.
She has no respect for you or your marriage she wants to develop up earlier than she commits to a wedding. To be trustworthy I wouldn’t even be her good friend as a result of if she will’t maintain her husbands secrets and techniques she would by no means maintain her friends secrets and techniques.
Norah Munee – Marriage is life for the 2 not a sideshow for everybody! What she tells them will be used against her sometime. Marriage is of the center.
Emmanuel – Teach her slowly ,with endurance present her the significance of privateness and am certain she’ll perceive. Many have gone by means of the identical drawback particularly the early days of our marriages however we overcame.